What's your dream? What you will be in the future? What major will
you choose in university? Do you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend? At what age
you will be married? How many children you want to have? etc. I don't know why
people ask such questions. Until now. It's like a never ending
question, isn't it?
What makes me wonder is, do such questions just happen in my
country or in other countries do the same things? Or is it just a
tradition? Maybe. I don't know. But, what I found was maybe it depends on a person.
Because some of my friends from different countries they're very welcome and
don't mind if I ask questions above. Although I don't ask specifically.
I think it's not a problem to ask people such questions. But, what
we have to underline is everyone has their boundary. If they're not comfortable
when you ask about something, then stop it. Don't try to get answers
forcefully. Be respectful. And absolutely don't ask in the first time you chat
or you meet. People have many characteristics and we don't know which character
we talk to. Ask the common question and ask for their permission if you want to
ask something privacy.
These are the points. I still found most of people are through the
border. In addition, these days, we can access everything on the in internet.
It makes it easier for people to see a person's information and act
like they know very well about that person. Whereas, they got that information
through the internet or people saying. Sometimes, this is annoying,
right? Come on guys let's stop it.
I'm not fully hated, but I think it's not funny when people are more
hurt because of this kind of thing. Luckily it's not happened to
me. No, actually I've experienced it. But, I back to my sense soon. Because I
know, no one in this world knows more about me except me and God. Don't live in
people expectations. Accept and love yourself. Everyone is unique. Everyone is
special.
I'm very thankful for those kind of people. Because of them, I have
a different paradigm and a different perspective to see the world and see life.
Many people encounter the change of fundamental paradigm when they get a
threatening mental crisis and suddenly see their priority on the other side or
different ways. And yeay! That's what makes me try life in the opposite. I want
to break through "the rules of life" and get out of my comfort
zone. Explore more, learn more, and experience more so I can lift up myself to
the next level becomes the best me.
