Life in The Opposite

What's your dream? What you will be in the future? What major will you choose in university? Do you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend? At what age you will be married? How many children you want to have? etc. I don't know why people ask such questions. Until now. It's like a never ending question, isn't it? 

What makes me wonder is, do such questions just happen in my country or in other countries do the same things? Or is it just a tradition? Maybe. I don't know. But, what I found was maybe it depends on a person. Because some of my friends from different countries they're very welcome and don't mind if I ask questions above. Although I don't ask specifically.

I think it's not a problem to ask people such questions. But, what we have to underline is everyone has their boundary. If they're not comfortable when you ask about something, then stop it. Don't try to get answers forcefully. Be respectful. And absolutely don't ask in the first time you chat or you meet. People have many characteristics and we don't know which character we talk to. Ask the common question and ask for their permission if you want to ask something privacy.

These are the points. I still found most of people are through the border. In addition, these days, we can access everything on the in internet. It makes it easier for people to see a person's information and act like they know very well about that person. Whereas, they got that information through the internet or people saying. Sometimes, this is annoying, right? Come on guys let's stop it.

I'm not fully hated, but I think it's not funny when people are more hurt because of this kind of thing. Luckily it's not happened to me. No, actually I've experienced it. But, I back to my sense soon. Because I know, no one in this world knows more about me except me and God. Don't live in people expectations. Accept and love yourself. Everyone is unique. Everyone is special.

I'm very thankful for those kind of people. Because of them, I have a different paradigm and a different perspective to see the world and see life. Many people encounter the change of fundamental paradigm when they get a threatening mental crisis and suddenly see their priority on the other side or different ways. And yeay! That's what makes me try life in the opposite. I want to break through "the rules of life" and get out of my comfort zone. Explore more, learn more, and experience more so I can lift up myself to the next level becomes the best me.